Monday, April 25, 2011

Virtual Honeymoon

In celebration of my one month anniversary as a newlywed, I thought I'd take you on a little virtual tour of our honeymoon.

We wanted to go somewhere warm with a beach. That's about all we knew in deciding where to go.  My cousin Jennifer and her husband Neal went to a place in Florida called Siesta Key for their honeymoon and a few other times too and I always thought it sounded so beautiful and fun.  And since it met our criteria for warm and beachy, we decided we would go there.  Not to mention we had so many good suggestions on where to go and what to see, and more importantly, what to EAT!

I will have to say that we had the BEST FOOD EVER while in Siesta Key.  Breakfast was our favorite meal of the day and we bounced back and forth between 2 places that we wish we could've taken home with us.  Seriously, we didn't have a bad meal while we were there.  And looking at all these photos makes me want to burst into tears and catch the first plane back.  Wearing a bib, of course.

It was still dark when we arrived at the airport that morning to leave, so when we saw these, we had to take a pic out of the airplane window!


Welcome to Siesta Key, Florida!

Here is a pic of the first breakfast we had at the Broken Egg Restaurant.  They had the most unbelievable breakfast hashbrown casserole EVER!!!!! And Wes insisted we try the world's largest blueberry pancake.  Which I happily obliged, even though it was full o' gluten :)


That first day was the sunniest day of our trip (we had a lot of rain and clouds) and we stopped to take some pics of the beautiful water.


We went to dinner at a place called "The Old Salty Dog" that was highly recommended to us AND also featured on Man Vs. Food.  I wanted the seafood and Wes, on the other hand, got the SALTY DOG.  But not only did he just order the Salty Dog, but he ordered the works.   Now before I explain what that means, be prepared to have a heart attack just reading what is on it:  8 slices of cheese, sauerkraut, mushrooms, and bacon all on a beer battered fried hot dog.  With fries in case that other stuff didn't clog up your arteries enough.  We also tried mussels for the first time which I didn't care for and Wes licked the bowl :)


For breakfast the next day, we decided to try Jenny and Neal's favorite spot called the Sungarden Cafe.  We loved this place too!  I had a breakfast casserole that was AMAZING and Wes got a ham croissant that was as big as my son's head.  Seriously.  And we also tried a waffle with bacon and pecans baked in because, hey, we were on vacation!


This day was pretty gloomy off and on, but we wanted to at least visit the beach.  We walked around a nearly empty beach and came across this awesome sand sculpture.


Our last day in Siesta Key we spent at a beach right by our resort called Turtle Beach.  It was not as crowded but the waves were so much fun!!



I wish we had taken more pictures, but we were so busy most of the time we just flat out forgot to bring the camera along.  I hope you enjoyed a glimpse into our trip.  I am actually kind of depressed realizing that most of our pictures were of food :)  Oh, well.  Contrary to what you might think, we actually did not come back with an extra 5 pounds.  Thank goodness we walked almost everywhere! :)

Thursday, April 21, 2011

You Love Me Anyway

 I heard this song for the first time driving to work today.  It was so beautiful and spoke to me so much.  It is perfect to share for this Easter weekend.  Please listen!



You Love Me Anyway

 The question was raised
As my conscience fell
A silly little lie

It didn't mean much
But it lingers still
In the corners of my mind

Still you call me to walk
On the edge of this world
To spread my dreams and fly

But the future's so far
My heart is so frail
I think I'd rather stay inside

But You love me anyway
It's like nothing in life
That I've ever known
Yes You love me anyway
Oh Lord, how You love me
How you love me

It took all of my strength
To simply be still
To seek but never find

The reasons we change
The reasons I doubt
And Why do loved ones have to die?

But You love me anyway
It's like nothing in life
That I've ever known
Yes You love me anyway
Oh Lord, how You love me

I am the thorn in your crown
But You love me anyway

I am the sweat from Your brow
But You love me anyway

I am the nail in Your wrist
But You love me anyway

I am Judas' kiss
But You love me anyway

See now I am the man who yelled out from the crowd
For Your blood to be spilled on this earth shaking ground
Yes then I turned away with a smile on my face
With this sin in my heart, tried to bury Your grace
And then alone in the night I still call out for You
So ashamed of my life, my life, my life

But You love me anyway
Oh God, how You love me
Yes You love me anyway
It's like nothing in life
That I've ever known
Yes You love me anyway
Oh Lord, how You love me

You love me 
How You love me 


Wednesday, April 13, 2011

I Love Being Domestic!

I love being married!!  It has been so wonderful to have a family of my own!  Based on the world's standards, we are kinda boring, but I am loving every second of it :)

The best part about being married is our evenings together as a family.  Coming home from work used to be so different.  I'd make dinner, play with Brian, bathe him, and by the time he went down for bed, I had just about an hour or so to myself before bed.  Now, I get to come home and cook dinner with my husband (who is an amazing cook and LOVES cooking!) and since I am not doing everything by myself anymore, we have plenty of time to do things together.  One thing we've been enjoying is going to my inlaws neighborhood and walking around their "yake" as Brian calls it (translation: "lake").

Last weekend was our first as a married couple with Brian gone to his dad's house.  We had a lovely date night on Friday which included going out to dinner and driving around just talking.  We actually started out by our house and kept driving until we ended up by Pop's.  Not sure how that happened, but we got some good sodas!

On Saturday, we did some yard work and some stuff around the house.  When we got back from our honeymoon, we ordered double park season passes to Frontier City/White Water with some of the leftover money from our trip.  Saturday was opening day at Frontier City for the season so we were hoping to get our passes in the mail- and sure enough, there they were!  So we spent the entire evening riding every ride there.  And some more than once.  Let's just say that my husband is more adventurous than I am.  But I rode the scary ones anyway.  Sometimes you do things to make the people you love happy, huh? :) I pretty much complained about every single ride.  You know you are a grown up when you start saying things like "this doesn't look very safe"  or "this seatbelt doesn't fit tight enough" or "this ride looks 100 years old."  Yes, I am guilty of saying all of these and more, but the truth is I had a blast.  We were starving when we left so we headed to Big Truck Tacos and it was DE-LICIOUS!

Sunday was a great day of church and lunch with our parents (minus my stepdad).  And that evening we spent with our Lifegroup.  It was a pretty great weekend, even though our little guy wasn't with us.  But we have PLENTY planned for our upcoming weekend with him.  Redhawks game on Friday night and Frontier City on Saturday. 

I keep forgetting to load my honeymoon pics from my camera and some pics from Sesame Street Live too.  I will try to remember to do that tomorrow!

Have a great week!  GOD IS GOOD!!!!!!!

Friday, April 8, 2011

Sometimes You Surprise Yourself

Today I learned that I can really surprise myself.  Actually, the more accurate thing to say is that God working in me has really surprised me.

I am the QUEEN of taking a potential situation in my life and making it the most negative, awful, terrible thing EVER- all before it even happens.  most of the time, the terrible, awful thing never even happens!!  So I spend so much precious time worrying and working myself up over nothing.  Please tell me I'm not alone on this??

Anyway, since my divorce I have worked myself up over Brian having a potential stepmother someday.  In my mind, nothing about the word STEPMOTHER was ANYTHING good.  From day one of thinking of this possibility someday, I immediately began thinking things like "she won't be good to my son" or "we won't get along" or "she'll try to replace me." NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE.  Did I really have a reason for thinking any of this?  No way!  The situation hadn't even occurred yet!  But, true to my sometimes overly negative self, I already began approaching this in the wrong way.  Sure, I prayed for God to bring a wonderful man into Brian's and my life, but it never occurred to me to pray for a wonderful woman to come into his life because I had already become so negative about it anyway.

Well, 3 years later and now Brian has a new stepfather.  Who is wonderful! And now Brian also has a new woman in his life that could maybe one day become his stepmother.  And you know what?  God has shown me that the word STEPMOTHER doesn't have to be bad.  Although I don't know this woman at all on a personal level yet, she has already shown me that she is good to my son.  How do I know this from someone I haven't met yet?  Well, for one, sometimes Brian talks about her.  And he always seems excited about it.  And she does special things with him when he's with his dad.  Bottom line, her being good to my son and making him happy makes this mama happy.  And that gives me so much respect for her.  I am sure it isn't easy to be in a relationship with someone who has a child with someone else.  I have respect for those who are. And you and I both know that it can result in one of two things:  1) There is jealousy, bitterness and not really a relationship with the child or 2) a bond, although not Mommy or Daddy, that is special in its own way. I have a feeling that Brian is going to get lucky and get a 2 for 2 on the step parent thing.

What I'm trying to say is that I all but prepared myself for nearly THREE YEARS to despise someone I had never even met!  And what God has slowly been showing me and REALLY brought to my attention today is that I should have trusted HIM with this.  That He is ALWAYS going to have Brian's best interest in mind and is ALWAYS going to make sure He is taken care of and loved.  Wow.  Talk about feeling about an inch tall!  I wish I had trusted Him more all along.  I had faith that I would find someone who loved my son, but regretfully didn't give much thought of his dad doing the same.  Needless to say, I am glad that God is working things out for our good even when we are stubborn and narrow minded.  And I am thankful that he allows us to learn from our mistakes and grow because of them.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Some Wedding Pics

I haven't got to see all of our wedding pics yet, but you can go to our friend Melissa Brown's website to see a few of the beautiful pics she took as well as read the sweet note she wrote about our wedding.  Thank you, Melissa for doing such a wonderful job!  Melissa's husband, David, is also the one who did our ceremony.  He did an amazing job too!  The day was just perfect!


My maid of honor and cousin, Jennifer also took some great pics of Brian and me before the wedding.  She and her daughter Addison (Brian's best buddy) came over to help us get ready.  We had such a great time.  She is my cousin, but in my heart she is my sister.  Thank you, Jenny!





Monday, April 4, 2011

Believe and Be Satisfied

This is what my wonderful husband read to me at our wedding.  It is beautiful and I wanted to share it with everyone.  Especially those who may be discouraged about finding the one God has for you.

Believe and Be Satisfied

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God, to the Christian says, “No, not until you are satisfied and fulfilled and content with living loved by Me alone, with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me, to have an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone. I love you, my child, and until you discover that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with Me – exclusive of any other desires and longing. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing – one that you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow Me to bring it to you. You keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things. Keep that satisfaction, knowing that I AM. Keep learning and listening to the things I tell you; and you must wait.
Don’t be anxious, and don’t worry. Don’t look around at the things others have gotten or that I have given them. Don’t look at the things you think you want. Just keep looking off and away and up to Me, or you’ll miss what I have to show you.
And then, when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you would ever dream. You see, until you are ready, and until the one I have for you is ready (I am working right this minute to have both of you ready at the same time), and until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I’ve prepared for you, you won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and this is the perfect love.
And, My dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me, and enjoy materially and sincerely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection and love that I offer you Myself. I love you utterly. I AM God Almighty. Believe and be Satisfied.”

Friday, March 18, 2011

Our Wedding Playlist

I thought it would be a nice idea to have some music playing while everyone was eating and talking at our little family wedding next week, so we made a playlist of songs.  We each chose 15 songs and I thought I'd share so everyone can see some of our "musical differences" :)

Jessica's Songs:

1.  "Marry Me" Train
2.  "Avalanche" David Cook (SURPRISE, SURPRISE, SURPRISE!)
3.  "100 Years"  Five for Fighting
4.  "Even Then" John Michael Montgomery
5.  "I Will Stand By You" Rascal Flatts
6.  "Maybe I'm Amazed"  Paul McCartney
7.  "How He Loves Us"  David Crowder Band (Not a wedding song, but I cannot help but be reminded of    his love for us during this time in my life.  It is because of His blessings that this day is coming)
8.  "Groovy Kind of Love" Phil Collins (Phil Collins brought us together in a way. lol)
9.  "I'll Still Be Loving You" Restless Heart 
10.  "Here" Rascal Flatts
11.  "Only Heart" John Mayer
12.  "God Only Knows" The Beach Boys
13.  "Your Love Amazes Me" Michael English
14.  "Beautiful Day" U2
15.  "Rhythm of Love" Plain White T's

Wesley's Songs:

1.  "Making Memories of Us"  Keith Urban
2.  "Crush"  Dave Matthews Band
3.  "To Make You Feel My Love"  Garth Brooks
4.  "Diary" Alicia Keys MTV Unplugged
5.  "I Melt" Rascal Flatts
6.  "Ever The Same"  Rob Thomas
7.  "She's My Kind of Rain" Tim McGraw
8.  "Something About the Way You Look Tonight"  Elton John
9.  "Crazy Love" Michael Buble
10.  "Woman" John Lennon
11.  "Wonderful Tonight" Eric Clapton
12.  "Take It From Here" Justin Timberlake
13.  "Better Together" Jack Johnson
14.  "My Love" Paul McCartney
15.  "And I Love Her" The Beatles
 
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